Gone with the wind

clap one's hands with satisfaction

the firmness of a rock

Long and short skills

The longest night will have an end.

odds and ends

be razed to the ground

the sumptuousness and rarity of the dishes

without provocation

Shoulder to shoulder

succeed in the imperial examination

lay bare one's heart(open up one's heart)

Shoulder to shoulder

Have a heart to heart

attack the enemy by hitting the blot

be proud of being poor

reverse of husband head of the family

obtain gold by washing it from sand and gravel(choose the best among a host of things)

refrain from outspoken attack

turn the back on the lover and go with another one(a widow marrying a second time)