submit to arrest with folded arms

of vital importance

have experienced many battles

have sb. completely in one's power

suffer heavy casualties in battle(lose the army and its general)

be strangers to each other

between life and death

never to be seen or heard of again

ignore(close one's eyes to)

be economical in everyday spending

unarmed

wake up from death(rise again)

living(be full of life)

at a loss what to do

drop a few silent tears

hoarse and exhavsted

nine houses out of ten are deserted(almost all houses empty after the raid)

stragglers and disbanded soldiers(freeman; an unoccupied person)

the three obediences obey her father before marriage, her husband when married, and her sons in widowhood and the four virtues

If I can't do it, who can?