round about refusal or blame

instigate(make trouble)

rifle(loot; put to the sack)

first to labour, then enjoy oneself later

flutter(be off one's balance)

be drenched with blood

relieve and pity the old and the poor

When one's heart is gone, it is difficult to keep his body.

become celebrated and bring glory to one's parents

act according to actual circumstances

be at one's last gasp(be at the point of death)

delicate skin and soft flesh

respect each other

appear far worse in comparison(be tarnished by comparison)

get accustomed to something

heart failure/attack

It is impossible to scratch an itching heart.

rare treasure

be old and wise

take one's family along