Be emaciated with grief

be busy with state affairs

behave like dogs and pigs(make a beast of oneself)

Limited requirement

forsake her former fiance

array troops for battle

wish to see your pleasant face

accept what is wrong as right as one grows accustomed to it

catch at shadows(run after a shadows)

Xi men Peng Lane

smashed to pieces

Mental worries cannot be cured by medicine.

mighty flames(raging fire)

have known each other long

be open-minded to accept other people's suggestions

roll up one's sleeves and raise one's fists

save a finger and lose the whole hand(lose the ship for a halfpennyworth of tar)

mutually reinforce or neutralize

Make a living

go like blazes